Of course, the easiest, fastest, and least expensive way of modifying a current child support order is
through mutual agreement with your ex. This is referred to as "agreed modification." The important thing
to remember is that any agreement with your ex
must be signed by a judge to be legal and effective.
Should you just make an arrangement with your ex to accept less child support and not have the
agreement signed by a judge to modify the existing court order, you will be responsible for any
arrearages that accumulate due to your reduced payment amounts.
You would need to contact a local attorney, Child Support Enforcement Agency, or Clerk of Court office
for more information on how to pursue an agreed modification according to the specific laws governing
your state.
In many states you will not even need a hearing to finalize the agreed modification. Simply file the
papers at the local Clerk of Court office, have your ex sign the appropriate consent and waiver
documents, speak with a judge to have the document reviewed and signed, and return the document to
the Clerk of Court for recording.
If you and your ex cannot agree on a modification to reduce your current child support order, there are
still several options available to you.